When teenagers/young adults are preparing to go off to college and away from mommy and daddy, there are many things that they should be thinking/worrying about that they are just not. All students are guilty of this statement, as am I. Some of the main things on their mind are where to live or what is there here to do that is fun. As typical teenagers, they are not ready to hit the stage where they have to grow up. Unfortunately for some, they never will grow up. For others that want to take the bull by the horns will be hit with a reality check.
One of the main things many students have to learn is that they are not in high school anymore. Therefore, the teachers are not tied to contracts that say they must pass and no child left behind. Without having these bindings, the teachers let the students be just that, students, if they want to. However, if the students don’t take advantage of their teachers, they will become just another number enrolled in the class. The teachers will not feed you on a golden platter to help you pass the class like it was in high school.
Not only will they not feed you with a golden spoon, they expect you to be able to absorb and grasp much more difficult information than that was asked of you in high school. Instead of just knowing the definitions, you must know the argument behind the definition, and why that definition matters. The most famous questions that all professors have asked me in my collegiate career are why and how. They want to know that you understand the topic in depth and not just enough to pass through because once you get into the real world and have to work, you have to be able to answer these why and how questions.
While many students will laugh at this tip of advice, I believe it is a very good one. Get to know your teachers. Just because you know your teachers does not make you a nerd. Someone once said “it’s not what you know, it’s who you know”. This saying has become one of my favorite mantras, especially since I moved to Wichita and began attending Wichita State University. Once you hit college, your networking skills are your most valuable assets.
One of the best references you can have is that of your professor. Not only can they vouch for your personality, but they can also attest to your aptitude and intellectualness. If you get to know them well enough, they could become your mentor as well. It is because one professor at WSU that I have been able to accomplish everything that I have. For instance, he is one that has helped me receive numerous scholarships, as well as helping me pursue my current job.
If you are willing to ask your teachers for help on a problem, they will help you. Not only that, since you put forth an effort to ask for help and to try to grasp the subject more, they sincerely appreciate that. With that appreciation, if you are on the bubble for a grade, your teacher will take into consideration that you asked for help and put forth an effort and 9 times out of 10 you will get the benefit of the doubt. Besides getting to know your teacher, there are also numerous other things you must accomplish in order to be successful in your college career both intellectually, academically, and socially.
One thing that college students need to do, which they partially do without thinking about it, is to be social. Being social does not just mean go out and party all the time. By being social, I mean to get involved with things that interest you, whether it’s on campus or off campus. For instance, find a church group that you like if you are religious. If you aren’t religious, but enjoy sports, check into intramurals because they usually have them in every sport. If you are not very athletic, but you have other interests such as flying, plants, etc. there is probably an organization on campus for you.
Speaking of organization, organizations are great things to build your resume. If you have not declared your major, just find a general organization to join where you will be doing many different things. If you have declared your major, there are academic organizations for almost every major available. Lastly, if you do not want to join an academic organization, you are always welcome to pledge one of the Greek houses. Going Greek is believed to build bonds and friendships that will never be broke or forgotten. It is like you have a family away from home.
While getting out there and being active is great, being too active can also have a negative effect. Whether it is being too involved on campus where you spread yourself too thin, or you party too much that you never do anything else. A little bit of partying is perfectly fine because you can build friendships outside of school and are able to expand your horizons and possibly try new legal things.
While I have left the academics for last is because academics are probably the most important thing when you go to college, yet it is one of the things that are generally overlooked, at least in the beginning. If you have a 4.0, that is great and I commend you. However, do not stress if you do not have a 4.0 GPA. Those are few and far between anymore. After speaking to numerous employers this past year, they are not just looking at the 4.0 students. They would rather have someone with a 3.5 GPA that is involved on campus and attempts to give back to the community. While this is not giving you an excuse to slack off on your studies because college is a lot different and more difficult than high school, we want you to succeed and be a well-rounded individual.